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I can't believe it! My birth nephew is 21 today - Feb. 27, 2006. How wild is that to think about.
I wonder how my sister who is his birthmom will be doing today. I'm sure she'll be thinking of him and that he's turning 21 today too, but I wonder what she'll be thinking. I hope she has an okay day with it being his 21st birthday and all.
I hope my bnephew is happy and had a good life. I hope and pray that someday we may just get to meet and know him. I would love to know what kind of man my bnephew has grown up to be now and what kind of life he's had and what kind of family he grew up with.
I'd love to know if he's ever wondered or thought about his birthmom (my sister) or if he's ever wonder about his birth grandparents and family (my parents,the aunts and uncles he's never known). I'd like to know what he'd think to know that his birthaunt (me) has placed two daughters for adoption in pretty open adoptions. We don't have visits and all identifying info exchanged, but compared to the adoption that my sister had with her son ( my bnephew) my adoptions with my girls are really open.
I wonder what my bnephew's done in his life. What has he excelled in? What has he had a hard time with? What life experiences and things has he had in his 21 years of life so far? What's he like? Does he look like the guys in my family or does he look like his bdad's family, which I don't know anything about my bnephew's bdad, only my sister knows that. Does my bnephew have personality quirks that run in our family or some other ones?
Does he want to ever find or know us or does he have no interest or curiosity to find or know about his bmom or us? I hope he's had a good, happy and full life to this point and that he'll continue to have a great life. I hope we can meet him one day and get to know him, but until then, I'll keep trying to wait and be patient to see if he comes looking or anything happens or not.
Until the day we hopefully meet my bnephew, Happy 21st Birthday too!! I hope you know that there are those of us out here from your bmom's family that are thinking of you, wondering about you, praying for you, wishing you the best and hoping to meet you one day.
Happy Birthday to you, my bnephew :)!!! You're always in our thoughts, prayers and in our hearts.
Love Always,
Your Birthaunt,
Anne :)