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Originally Posted By vickiI just wanted to say that we have both bio children and an adopted daughter who is now 2. She is the joy and love of all our lives! Our bio(I'm only using the term to clarify) children are older and they had no problem loving their sister. I was there when she was born and held her immidiately. I don't know exactly when the bonding took place but i knew it was meant to be and the love was there by the next day. Take it from someone who has gone through 3 pregnancies and an adoption ...the love that I feel for my children is not any different! In fact she is so much like my 17 year old daughter that we tend to forget she is adopted. Good luck to you...
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Originally Posted By JenniferAs Far as the Bonding - I believed is goes both ways. I was adopted at birth 31 years ago, and I Love and Cherish my Parents. I am now seeking my birth parents only out of curiosity. I have 5 brothers and sisters (4 of which were also adopted ) and it was great growing up with everyone looking so different, but loved all the more.I now have my own daughter and it took me a few weeks to bond with her, and I gave birth to her. She is the Light of my and her grandparents life. when I speak of my parents throughout this note - I am speaking of the special peopel who adopted me, and have all my Love and devotion.
Originally Posted By sandraJennifer,what are you doing here? Do you NEED to prove your love for the special people that "adopted" you? Adoption causes a lot of NEED in people.How sad.There is a world out there somewhere where adoption hasn't affected "somebody"..how lucky they are!!!!sandrawww.chsadoption.com
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