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Originally Posted By BrendaTo answer some of your questions on open adoption, here's some great statistics:Open AdoptionWhat is Open Adoption?The term open adoption refers to the sharing of information and/or contact between the adoptive and biological parents of an adopted child. This can occur before, during and/or after the placement of the child. (Baran and Pannor, 1993)The Continuum of Openness(Grotevant and McRoy, 1998)<------------------------------------------------- ---------> Confidential Mediated Fully Disclosed Confidential: Minimal information is shared between adoptive and birth family members and is never transmitted directly; any exchange of information typically stops with the adoptive placement of shortly thereafter.Mediated: Non-identifying information is shared between parties through adoption agency personnel, who serve as go-betweens; sharing could include exchange of pictures, letters, gifts, or infrequent meetings at which full identifying information is not revealed.Fully disclosed: Involves full disclosure of identifying information between adoptive and birth families; may involve direct meetings in each others' homes or in public places, phone calls, letters, and sometimes contact with the extended family. How many open adoptions take place each year?In 69% of public and private agency adoptions, the birth parents had met the adoptive couple. (Berry, 1991) What is the history of open adoption in the United States?The origin of statutory requirements in the early 20th century, that adoption be confidential and that birth certificates and adoption records be sealed, began with early laws such as the Minnesota Act of 1917. By the early 1950s almost every state had amended its adoption statues to create complete anonymity for the birth parents. Beginning in 1974, research demonstrates that some of the psychological problems observed in adolescent and adult adoptees, birth parents, and adoptive parents appeared to be directly related to the secrecy, anonymity, and sealed records of adoption. Open adoption became increasingly common in the 1970s,1980s, and 1990s as research and practice began to promote the principles of open adoption. (Baran and Pannor, 1993) What research has been conducted on triad members in open adoptions?Research to date indicates that birthmothers commonly view open adoption positively. (Berry, 1993) In Belba's 1987 study, measuring minimum, moderate, and maximum contact with birthmothers of 12 adoptive couples, adoptive parents reported that they appreciated having contact with birthmothers to answer questions as they arose. (Berry, 1993) Not all outcomes, however, have been positive. In a 1990 mailed survey of 59 relinquishing birthmothers, 18 in open adoption and 41 in confidential adoptions, Blanton and Deschner found that birthmothers in open adoptions were significantly more troubled than those in closed adoptions in the areas of social isolation, sleep complaints, physical symptoms, despair and dependency. ("Openness" was defined as meeting at placement.) (Berry, 1993) In a 1993 study, Gross interviewed 32 adoptive parents and 16 birthmothers, and surveyed 75 adoptive parents from a private agency. Gross found that 72% of adoptive parents were "very satisfied" with contact with birth mothers, 19% were "basically satisfied" but had some reservations; 2 families were dissatisfied and had ceased contact. Fifteen of the sixteen birthmothers were satisfied with contact. In the questionnaire sample, a relationship was found between more frequent contact and a higher degree of satisfaction with the placement. (Grotevant and McRoy, 1998) The following statistics are based on the Grotevant and McRoy longitudinal study on open adoption. Between 1987-1992, information was collected from 190 adoptive families and 169 birthmothers experiencing varying levels of openness in their adoptions.The data from the study, a snapshot of families taken 4 to 12 years after the adoptive placement, revealed:Fears that birth parents would attempt to reclaim their children or otherwise intrude on adoptive families' lives are not apparent in families with fully disclosed adoptions. Openness does not interfere with adoptive parents' emerging sense of entitlement to parenthood. Having a fully disclosed adoption does not guarantee successful grief resolution, as is evidenced by the broad range of grief resolution ratings among birthmothers across all adoption arrangements in this study. In the same study, thirty-one adoption agencies were also interviewed on their practice toward the range of openness. The agencies were measured in two time intervals: Time 1 was between 1987 and 1989 and Time 2 was 1993. Only 11 of the original 31 agencies (35%) offered fully disclosed adoption options as part of their standard practice at Time 1. Four to five years later, 22 of the remaining 29 agencies (76%) offered full disclosed adoptions. By 1993, 2/3 of the agencies offered the continuum of openness in adoption, from confidential to fully disclosed. In 1987, most agencies offered only confidential and mediated adoptions. 2/3 of the fully disclosed adoptions in this sample did not start as fully disclosed: 5% began as mediated and 14% began as confidential. (Grotevant and McRoy, 1998)BibliographyBaron, A. and Pannor, R. (1993). Perspectives on open adoption. The Future of Children: Adoption, 3(1), 119-124.Berry, M. (1993). Adoptive parents' perceptions of, and comfort with, open adoption. Child Welfare, 77(3), 231-253.Berry, M. (1993). Risks and benefits of open adoptions. The Future of Children, 3(1), 125-138.Grotevant, H.D. and McRoy, R.G. (1998). Openness in Adoption: Exploring Family Connections. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications.This material may be reproduced and distributed without permission, however, appropriate citation must be given to the National Adoption Information Clearinghouse.
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Originally Posted By TashaHi,My husband and I may be considering adoption in a few years. I have six adopted siblings, and would rather adopt than try for a biological child. There are so many children already in the world needing homes. None of my siblings were what I would call open adoptions, although four were older, and knew all their biological relatives. I have been a bit concerned with the idea "full disclosure" when it comes to open adoptions. Granted, all my siblings were from 1. abandoment 2. relinquished (supposed product of a rape) and the other four were DCFS kids, which can make a difference in how I view some of my siblings birth mothers. I know a birth mother who has her kids taken away because of neglect has other issues, as opposed to a birth mother who gives up her child. My older brother and his wife went in to learn more about adopting serveral years. At that time, as with now, it was advocated to them that the adoption should be open. He came out of it saying "Open, Hell No!" Funny guy. Anyway, that was from an ADOPTED person as an adult. Now granted, he was abandoned at birth, not even a hospital birth, so we didn't know anything about his birth. And he's never wanted to look for his birth mother. I guess my real question about open adoption that in the research I haven't found addressed is what happens when the child reaches teenage years? What happens when teens start getting mad at their parents, and there are the birth parent(s)? It seems like it could set up a divorced family situation where a child can play one parent off the other. Granted I haven't read any books on the subject yet, but it seems like no one will say what happens after kids get out of being a toddler, and things get sticky. So I'd be interested in finding out if anyone out there adopted "openly" about twenty or more years ago and can tell me what happened in their family. Thanks in advance.Tashatawelch@hotmail.com
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