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Originally Posted By Michelle V
someone above wrote that we bmoms are only taxis. i am not just a taxi. i carried my child for 9 months and love her with all my heart. my decision to place was not an easy one. it would behoove any of the potential adoptive parents not to refer to their birthmoms this way, i doubt it would be appreciated. it only reinforces what the angry bmoms have been saying about adoptive parents on these boards. that they think of us as just their taxis. best wishes, michelle v
Originally Posted By Taylor
Sorry Michelle. I have read your post, you are about the only bmom w. a heart. My direct slam was to dearest Sandra, who indeed gives bmoms a bad name!
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Originally Posted By Michelle V
Taylor, hey, thanks for clearing that up. i was in a state of shock (lol). i usually have a pretty good sense of humor and try to see things for what they really are. it just hit me wrong. having a bad day, thought this was going to be part of it. thanks again. sincerely, michelle v
Originally Posted By To Michelle, from Kelli Ann
Michelle, you seem like a very understanding b-mom. I have a few questions. Can we talk? I'm an adoptee as well as ana doptive mom, just let me know! thanks!!
We received our son when he was 9 days old. He left the home of a wonderful foster mommy, she spoiled him rotten! He never had a problem w. adjusting or anything. He slept, ate & did other thiings on schedule. Please don't be fooled by some who say you can't. Think about this, your it's parents. The care givers of it's life. Bonding comes very natural!
Originally Posted By Michelle V
Kelli Ann, hi. i would love to talk with you as i have many questions myself. lol. it has helped me so much to talk with adoptive parents and adoptees in the chat room here. if you want to leave your email address i will email you. i have met a lot of bmoms and potential adoptive moms through the bulletin boards and through chat. some of us have exchanged phone numbers and talk frequently. anyway, would love to speak with you. sincerely, michelle v
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Originally Posted By Michelle....from Kelli Ann
I would leave my addy, but I have seen some post of some scary people! (lol) Can you tell me when you usually chat here? I chat here often. Maybe we can met in chat & then I will share my email addy with you? Sound ok? Just let me know! Thanks Michelle & look forward to chatting w. you!
Originally Posted By Michelle V
hey kelli ann...if you are still around and read this i will go on to chat at about 10 or 10:15...i will wait till 10:30 for ya. hope to see you there....michelle v
Originally Posted By to michelle....kelli ann
Can you give me a time on Friday 9-15? I will be on the puter after 1pm.....est. Hope to see you there. Do you log in under your name? I do. Hope to chat soon! Thanks!
Originally Posted By Michelle V
kelli ann, hey, i am taking my daughter to discover zone this afternoon so i cant be here. well, unless she throws a curve ball and decides to nap at that time..lol. but i will definitely be here tonight after 8 pm when she goes to bed.....hope to talk soon...michelle
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I can't think of anything going on that would prevent me from coming to chat! I will try, if not, then I can def. bethere at 9pm! Hope to talk to you then! Kelli Ann
Originally Posted By Michelle...Kelli Ann
We seem to be missing each other. I'll pass along my email addy. You can contact me there & maybe we can get our chatting time mapped out! lol
kelli-pep2@lycos.com
Thanks!
Kelli Ann
Originally Posted By jen
Michelle, I just want to thank you. I am adopted. I want to thank ALL birthmothers who chose to unselfishly give their child up...instead of taking away it's life. Abortion seems to be the choice solution for unwanted pregnancies these days. What with stretch marks, loss of figure, pain of labor etc. (LOL) It takes a true hero to go through 9 months of that in order to break your own heart. That you were able to discern your situation and take the long road out is a huge matter to me. I wouldn't be alive without people like you.
jumporfall@mauimail.com
Originally Posted By SANDRA
Sandra is a Mother that loves her child and that love is forever,even "after" CHILDRENS HOME SOCIETY of FLORIDA "placed" him in a "home" not fit for an animal.He is finally SAFE and he is HOME,where he alwasys belonged had CHILDRENS HOME SOCIETY of FLORIDA not gotten their hands on him,'TO GIVE HIM A BETTER LIFE".He was USED,discarded by them.
sandra
www.chsadoption.com
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