Looking for MI Transracial Adoption Support Groups

Hello!We also are from SE MI and are about 3 weeks away from adopting a biracial baby. If you have heard of any groups, please post something regarding it. At the very least, we could possibly set up our own forum for discussions, right?

Congrats!!!! :cheer: Have you done any reading? We have In Their Own Voices which I am 100 pages into and just got I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla today. Have you read either of these? Any others you could recommend? Did you go to any biracial seminars or any special research? I would be very interested in chatting with you sometime, if you'd like.

Congratulations!I have not been able to locate any support groups in our area. You are onto something about starting our own support group. I would recommend Black Baby, White Hands by Dr. Jaiya Johns. I had the opportunity to hear him speak. He's very inspiring. The book is about his childhood growing up as the first black baby adopted by a white family in New Mexico (I think, or was it Arizona...I read it a while ago. :confused: ) Anyway, he's devoted his life to studying adoption and transracial adoption. I would love to chat with all of you, too. Since my son is a toddler, I've been looking for good transracial adoption books for kids. I've come across a few. If you're interested, I can pm a list.

Thank you! It's been a rollercoaster ride so far. I am sure there's a lot of that in most adoption cases, but I don't think I was prepared for it as much as I thought I was. We are now about 2 weeks away and I wish I was more confident in it actually happening. I know, I know, I probably won't sleep right again for another 18 years ;) I like the idea of setting up our own message board, chat room specifically for MI couples. I am sure we could all learn a lot and support each other through times we may not know are coming. I will look into different types of boards and see what I can find. If any of you have suggestions, feel free to jump in. I am hoping we could grow into not just a support group online, but perhaps plan a yearly reunion or something similar. Getting ahead of the game here, but it's just a thought. We aren't a group of licensed professionals, but with experience and good listening skills, I am sure we can help each other with various things, such as behavior modification, hair styling, great sales, new products, etc. Again, I will look into it and let you know what I find.

I haven't used message board services. This site does have a Michigan Adoption forum, but it's not very active. I like the idea of having one specifically for us. Please keep me posted on your progress...both with the adoption and with the Michigan board, forum, etc research. Good luck with everything. It is a rollercoaster, but it is worth every minute. :)

Ha! and it shows I'm a shop-aholic when my eyes lit up at tips on "great sales" :evilgrin:

I have started one, on the MSN message boards. I am more than willing to adjust the settings as we go along and get suggestions, but right now it's set up that members have to be 'approved' to join...believe me, criteria is nothing, just want to prevent advertisers and untruthful situations from coming in. I called it "MI Baby's Playgroup". The link to go to it is... [url="http://groups.msn.com/MIBabysPlaygroup"]http://groups.msn.com/MIBabysPlaygroup[/url] On the right side, there is a column of things to click on, such as 'apply to join'. I am inviting all MI couples who have adopted transracial or biracial children to join! The idea is to have a place just for those who want to share advice, ideas, learn and grow together as Transracial or Biracial couples doing their best to raise our children. In other words, a non-professional support group. From there, anyone can set up play dates, 'reunions', group seminars, or whatever they want to try. As for the adoption, I am on edge again, because we haven't heard from her in a week. She was supposed to return a phone call from the social worker in her area, and hasn't. She was supposed to go to the dr's this week, yet missed her appointment. She was also supposed to send some more bills for us to pay, but we haven't received those yet either. All of this was discussed about a week ago. If this placement is not going to happen, I would just like to know NOW, rather than in two weeks when the baby is due.

Thank you so much for starting the board. I can't wait to join and meet other MI transracial families. You're in my thoughts. I hope everything works out for the best for all parties involved in this adoption.:grouphug:

Thank you! If anyone has trouble getting through, please let me know.

I see that these messages are all from several years ago, but they are what came up on Google when I looked for transracial adoption groups in southeast Michigan. Is anyone still interested in a transracial adoption play group/support group in southeast Michigan?

I too am wondering if it still is we are foster to adopt older children and open to all races. We are one of 3 competing families to be matched with a AA sib group on MARE and one of 4 competing families for a 13 year old AA girl on Mare. Would love support in the area as all of my foster friends are in Western Michigan.

There is a group of us with chlidren from Guatemala who used to get together a lot but now our kids are school age it is harder to arrange anything. PM me if you would like and I would be glad to let you know when we plan anything this summer. You might try posting on the Foster Parent Support board. I know there are some people on there from central and SE Michigan. One member even set up a Facebook group for them to connect but I can't remember what her user name is. If it comes to me I will post it. ETA: I wonder if you could search for the group on Facebook as well? Not sure how that would work, but worth a try. :)

I am very interested in a play group. Our adoption won't be final for a few months, but he is will be with us for overnight visits starting this week, and just turned 2.

Transracial adoption in America has a long history and this particular "adoption" had an impact upon our world in ways that even today we can not begin to estimate. After a botched kidnapping attempt, in which his mother was killed, George Washington Carver (and his brother Jim) were "adopted" by the white couple Moses and Susan Carver in 1865. This remarkable story of courage and kindness can be read in THE SEEDS WE SOW, KINDNESS THAT FED A HUNGRY WORLD.[url=http://www.amazon.com/Seeds-Kindness-That-Hungry-World/dp/0865347883]Amazon.com: The Seeds We Sow, Kindness That Fed A Hungry World (9780865347885): Gary Beene: Books[/url] [url=http://search.barnesandnoble.com/The-Seeds-We-Sow/Gary-Beene/e/9780865347885/?itm=1&USRI=gary+beene]BARNES & NOBLE | The Seeds We Sow by Gary Beene | Paperback[/url]

Sorry to have started this thread and then left it for so long - we have been moving from California (finally in Michigan, although not into the house yet - still waiting to take possession) and it has been crazy! Turns out we will be out in Oxford, and the closest play group I could find (looked on Meetup) seemed to be in Sterling Heights, which is still a bit of a hike. Granted, we have not even started adoption proceedings yet, since we aren't in the house yet, so I won't have a child to contribute to this play group until at least next year. However, when we have a child, I'd definitely be interested in participating in a play group for biracial children/families. (And we have a big house, so I can provide some meeting space). Unfortunately not till we get the adoption going though - I'd say probably spring. Once that happens, I'll check back here, and if no one else has started anything on their own, I'd be happy to take the initiative and start a group - we have a big house and are hoping to set up a nice play space for kids there. Hope to meet some of you then!