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I live in Medina County Ohio and just discovered yesterday at an open house that they will not let anyone take the foster parenting courses unless you will take children 12 or older. I have been talking to a social worker for months, waiting for these classes to begin. Never mentioned anything like this, and I did give her quite a bit of backround information including my age range 0-7. I am only 26 years old and single. I have no kids of my own and I believe an older child for me would be not in the best interest of the child. Has anyone else been turned down JUST because you won't take in older children?
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where i live i believe the lowest age they want you to request is 0-9. they say in our county that there are MANY empty homes because people will only accept small children, and there just aren't many. But there is a great need to place teens, but not enough families to place them with. so i understand not wanting to license families here who are not willing to provide care for the ages needed....because it would be a waste of money and time for them to license homes they won't use. at the same time, i believe they should be very upfront from the very beginning so everyone knows what is going on. i will say that i believe where i am, they do that. we got licensed anyway because we are adopting a child from out of state, but i know once our adoption is final, that phone won't ring with a new foster placement, because we will only take placements younger than our youngest child who is one and a half. lol. in our rather large county, there are currently TWO children in foster care in the 0-2 range.
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I live in the same county!!! We do not foster through the county because we go with a private agency, I will PM you the info, and get much more support than the county provides. We did go to the info session 2 1/2 years ago. they did not tell us that, but did say they really don't place many young kids. Also the time frame the county gave to getting a homestudy was 1 year. We did not want to wait that long. I believe our agency is 3 months.
We ran into a similar situation when we went to our first resource parent meeting in August. We'd first called and applied last March, and talked to several people in the meantime, and heard many different stories. Originally we wanted straight adoption, but at that first meeting they said they only do straight adoption for kids 9+, with severe needs, or who are part of a sibling group of 3 or more kids. We're open to 2 kids but not 3, at least not until we had some experience. We were open to kids age 3-9, so that didn't work for us.
We went to lunch, talked it out, and decided we were okay with foster/adopt, so we still fit in the program. It was very frustrating to hear 5 months into the process, though. Of course, we're now a couple of weeks into being licensed and no placements. i'm expecting a long wait.
I think you should have been told earlier but with all the budget cuts maybe it's a new policy. I grew up in Medina county. We're licensed with our county in the western part of the Ohio. We're licensed for 0-6 for just over a year. We're open to sibling groups. We have one placement a 2 yr old girl. That being said my husband and I are already discussing what to do at relicensing since our county has so few placements. There are only 7 children in foster care total currently. Part of the reason is if we're able to adopt this foster daughter (it's pretty likely) we'd like to have other children somewhat close to her age and also it's silly to do all the work to be licensed and then be empty. There's got to be some younger kids needing homes especially since we're foster as well as adopt.
I'd love any PM about Ohio agencies.
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I pmed you. Also here is a link to Ohio's adoption guide. At the end is a list of all county agencies and all private agencies. Many of the private agencies do fostercare also. You just have to call and ask. [URL="http://www.odjfs.state.oh.us/forms/file.asp?id=54894"]http://www.odjfs.state.oh.us/forms/file.asp?id=54894[/URL]
Move to OK, in my area they are in desperate need of foster homes. Most in the schoolage range but our CW has been in contact with different community groups trying to get out the word that more foster homes are needed. There are only 5 families in our PRIDE class and there are usually 15-20.
We just met with our case worker and she said there is such a need for foster families for school age children (under 8 years old). We live in Illinois. I guess it just depends on where you live.
I also did hear that alot of times they will say that the state is only looking for foster homes to take in older children (especially boys) to weed out the families that only want young kids.
Good luck!
UTbrie
I live in Medina County Ohio and just discovered yesterday at an open house that they will not let anyone take the foster parenting courses unless you will take children 12 or older. I have been talking to a social worker for months, waiting for these classes to begin. Never mentioned anything like this, and I did give her quite a bit of backround information including my age range 0-7. I am only 26 years old and single. I have no kids of my own and I believe an older child for me would be not in the best interest of the child. Has anyone else been turned down JUST because you won't take in older children?
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Ssumner
We just met with our case worker and she said there is such a need for foster families for school age children (under 8 years old). We live in Illinois. I guess it just depends on where you live.
I also did hear that alot of times they will say that the state is only looking for foster homes to take in older children (especially boys) to weed out the families that only want young kids.
Good luck!
That county is the worst! When we were looking to get licensed we lived in Medina too and got the run around for SIX MONTHS about even STARTING the classes. It was a joke. We moved another 6 mo. later to a neighboring county and went through the process. Still, we're licensed for up to a sibling group of 3 ages birth-11yrs. We have 1 FD (our 1st call after being licensed for 3 mo!!!), and got one other call 6 mo. after that (didn't end up being a fit). Even though we live in a major county and constantly get "props" for our parenting, we NEVER get calls. I don't get it.
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We're in Kansas and just got our emergency license. We're getting a short-term respite placement this weekend. We licensed for 0-17 but prefer 6-12. We've been hearing throughout the process how desperate the state is for foster parents. Our CW claims she's gotten several inquiries about us from the placement workers, but we'll see.