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Originally Posted By a lonely 15 year old girlI'm 15, I was adopted and placed into a new home when I was one month old. I love it here, big house great parents that gives me everything, but somethings missing, I'm an only child. My birth mother my 4-year old sister, and I lived in a trailer in south carolina, before I was born my father left us, my mother coudln't take care of a baby, plus another child by herself in a tiny tralior, she had to give me up. A couple of months passed by and my birth mother still talked to my adoptive parents, telling them she found a new man, who was going to stay with her, and more great news... shes pregnant with a boy! All my life I wanted a brother, and when my adoptive mother told me I had one, I was crying... I would give anything to see my brother who is 14 now soon to be 15, and my sister Nicole should be 19, my mother's name is Darlene and her maiden name is Jackson, but I'm not sure if she re-married, if you have any information about anything please let me know, I really need them, I feel alone. Christina
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Originally Posted By EydPlease find someone to talk to, an aunt or friend or even a friends mother. You have been hurt deeply and a great book for adoptee's to read is called "primal wound" (recommended by our caseworker). Take the time to read this book and it could help explain why you feel this way. You are not alone there are alot of people who are adopted and feeling the same way you are, try and find an adoption group in your area to attend.
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Originally Posted By amberi no how hard it must be for you ,although i have never gone through what you are but i see where you are coming from sometimes i feel along as my brother and sister are alot close to each other than to me and i am the middle child so my sister is older and goes out all the time ,we used to talk to each other heaps but not anymore she has a boyfriend and doesnt need to talk to me ,my brother is the baby of the house and gets practically anything he wants using the little tantrums and to tell you the truth he's no fun to talk to not about anything good anyway i really hope you do find your family and i hope everything turns out great for you :)
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Originally Posted By bacSometimes things are better left in the past than to drudge up something that might hurt worse than the terrible lonliness you feel.The truth may free you so you can go on with your life and realize how much your parents love you. They are your parents even if she didn't give birth to you.Good luck with your search.One who knows how you feel but decided to let sleeping dogs lie.