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Is it accpetable to have box braids on a 6 year old boy? His hair is about 4 inches long. We get it cornrowed about once a month but the cornrows do not stand up to diving and he has 4-6 hours a week of diving off both the low and the high board. THis weekend he has a diving competition and I really need to do something to keep him from messing with his hair on the end of the board but I don't know that cornrows would even hold for the whole competition (plus I have to pay someone to do it). I have done box braids before but that was mostly when he was around the house. I am not sure its OK if he is going to be on display. THoughts?
LOL...here there is a swimming club for a neighboring city that one can join at age 5 and there are practice times....they claim that with the practice times of the swimming they do your child should (I love how they say should) be ready to compete in local meets in a month. Who knows, I'm intrigued, I'm only a moderate swimmer and want any child of mine to be better at it than I am whether or not it's just swimming lessons galore way past what I did or joining a swimming club
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DannieAS
How many times a week do they practice to be able to compete so quickly? My kids take swim lessons and we go to the pool for practice several times a week and they still can't swim well enough to compete.
Zero sense... just zero! LOL!
nickchris
I cancelled my membership to ours. lol Anyhow I get the more laid back atmosphere on the west side. Some of the styles are dated, just keep him away from the alligator shoes, and grills. :D
Sleeplvr
DannieAS
How many times a week do they practice to be able to compete so quickly? My kids take swim lessons and we go to the pool for practice several times a week and they still can't swim well enough to compete.
I just looked at the schedule and for the little ones it's 6 days a week....meaning from 5/6 y/o to 12 y/o give or take
middle school have practice every day and high school have some 2 a day
so not sure if this part of CA is more lax about competition or what or there's something too "perfect" about the way they are advertising themselves.
I actually was thinking about NevadaJen today because L started her swim lessons today and the pool was next to an olympic size pool where they were having a diving meet.
There is an aquatic center (indoor pool) that does swimming lessons year round and by the time the kids are older and have done many of the basics I guess they can be invited by an instructor to the section of pre-swim team practices/lessons so I know not just anyone is cut out for instant swim team.
Sorry Jen totally hijacked the thread....carry on
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OOO. We should get together next time I am in CA. PJ can teach L to dive! I would push diving over swimming any day. Less competition for scholarships. Plus, it sounds like that's what L likes to do anyway!
Nevada Jen
OOO. We should get together next time I am in CA. PJ can teach L to dive! I would push diving over swimming any day. Less competition for scholarships. Plus, it sounds like that's what L likes to do anyway!
Seriously today 2nd day of swim lessons, I had a bratty kid....I love my L, however, a stranger would have thought she hated the water which was further from the truth....all she wanted to do was jump....I made her kick back to the wall every time so she would practice what we were doing at the time....you should have seen her....angry face, kicking for all it's worth towards the wall, shouting at the top of her lungs.....JUMP JUMP JUMP....oh my....didn't help that the instructor was giving us the 'stink-eye' for a bit.
I'm thinking after these two weeks are done, I'm going to call the aquatic center and schedule my 'free trial lesson' and see how they work with the kids....I already called and asked about their experience with "independent" types of kids....they laughed and said they work with them all the time when other places don't go very well for them. We'll see.....Jen that would be awesome.
You might try getting her private lessons instead. My DH teaches private lessons and its a lot more efficient for a new swimmer. Then once she can basically get around in the water, you can put her in an actual class. Kiddy swim classes drove me nuts. There were always a couple of non swimmers (and by that I mean terrified of the water, cause a scene non swimmers) in every one of PJ's classes and that always brought the whole class down. Because they do it by age and not ability until about age 5 here, we had trouble finding him a swim class that was the right level. If you did private classes, the teacher could have her jump in and then do the skill they are working on for a few seconds and then jump again etc. . . It might be a better fit for her.
Nevada Jen
You might try getting her private lessons instead. My DH teaches private lessons and its a lot more efficient for a new swimmer. Then once she can basically get around in the water, you can put her in an actual class. Kiddy swim classes drove me nuts. There were always a couple of non swimmers (and by that I mean terrified of the water, cause a scene non swimmers) in every one of PJ's classes and that always brought the whole class down. Because they do it by age and not ability until about age 5 here, we had trouble finding him a swim class that was the right level. If you did private classes, the teacher could have her jump in and then do the skill they are working on for a few seconds and then jump again etc. . . It might be a better fit for her.
Maybe, this center I'm talking about gives you a lesson/ looksie so they can recommend what would be best.....even if it were in a group, their max is 4 kids so each gets indiv attention....while they have "age ranges", they do seperate kids by ability....and you have to be approved by the instructor to go on to the next level.
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DannieAS
Maybe, this center I'm talking about gives you a lesson/ looksie so they can recommend what would be best.....even if it were in a group, their max is 4 kids so each gets indiv attention....while they have "age ranges", they do seperate kids by ability....and you have to be approved by the instructor to go on to the next level.
This is the format where my kids take lessons. Four kids max and they get the appropirate level of attention. When then let them practice at our neighborhood pool several days a week. One of my kids is very technical and the other isn't. It's funny that the one that isn't so technical is the one most comfortable in the water.
Jen
Your son's hair is fine. I thought it was super long. Just keep braiding it and make him happy.
Thanks Sleep, I am going to keep it at nape of the neck length and just let the rest of the hair catch up to that length. I took the braids out today and it is in great shape and there was no breakage. Braid lady is going to have a fit when I tell her we will be trimming it to keep it at that length. But she will just have to live. Now i just have to figure out how to make the parts more even.
Nevada Jen
Thanks Sleep, I am going to keep it at nape of the neck length and just let the rest of the hair catch up to that length. I took the braids out today and it is in great shape and there was no breakage. Braid lady is going to have a fit when I tell her we will be trimming it to keep it at that length. But she will just have to live. Now i just have to figure out how to make the parts more even.
I really liked his braids! He's a very handsome child!
oh and day 4 of swimming lessons....I actually had a subdued compliant kid following the directions and not screaming only to jump :eek: :cool: progress :)
Let's clarify, as I am not the gate keeper of hair. ;-) The issue was the hairstyle, his texture holding the style, and the diving, not should you braid his hair. Jen if "you" can handle it, solution found. My younger son liked his hair longer, we cut it this summer. I told him with the pool, we needed to cut the hair for the summer, as I was not up to the hair maintenance, and chlorine. He was opposed to his upcoming haircut, until he started playing in the increasingly warmer sun, and felt hot and sweaty; now he likes the low cut. If my kiddo wants it longer later in the colder weather to keep his (as he will say) head warm, then we will grow it out.
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Before I forget, there is a style called a twist, and then there is a twist out style alternative. The twists look like locks, but are temporary. That may be an alternative for braids that come loose often. A bit of gel can help maintain.
DL Hughley has the style, John Legend does as well, though his twists lie down.
I can't get twists to stay in it Nick. Believe me I tried. With a rubberband at the end they kind of curl around on his head and then the end sticking out from the rubberband looks like a random straight spike.
I think I have it figured out now. I can cornrow it to the "headband" line and then box braid a few rows under that. That keeps it out of his face at least. After watching You tube, I also figured out what I was doing wrong on the parts. I was making perfect boxes but not lining them up in horizontal rows. Duh.