9 years of searching... nothing new.

When my adad died in 2003, I decided to search for my bparents in an attempt to fill the void his death had left. As the years passed, its become more of a search to know my roots, to have a medical history for my own children and just to sate the curiosity. I've motioned to open the case files, I've hired a pi, I've worked with a search angel. And I have no more information than I did when I started. She was 20, born 2/9/63 in Neptune NJ. He was born 6/3/61 and was from the Bronx. I was born at Bayfront Medical Center in St. Pete Fla in 1983. I have social worker names, I know the name of the attorney who handled the private adoption (now deceased). I know the sex and ages of the sibilings of both my bmom and bdad. I know their hair and eye color and weights and even their hobbies (from the non-id papers). But I can't find a name. 9 years with all that info and nothing. So frustrating and finally getting to the point of just giving up.