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Hi, I'm wondering if anyone has any experience/advice about this. I have 2 adopted children, separate adoptions, age 10 and 5 who have been with us since they were 19 months. As a family we know a 5 year old boy who is being fostered and his foster carer has said it seems unlikely that they are going to find a family for him due mainly to his age. My husband and I are very fond of this little boy but have no idea if you can adopt someone you know or if it has to be done in the traditional way of social services finding a match with adoptive parents who are unknown to the child. Any help would be much appreciated. davcat
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I've heard of people adopting in this way. It tends to happen when the child is having trouble finding a home elsewhere. Often relatives of the foster carer adoptHowever, social services might have concerns about your youngest child being five, and this boy being five as well. Age gap rules are often very strictly applied with unrelated children.Speak to his foster carer and SW if you really want to adopt him. You would need a lot more information about him before you could decide whether or not to go ahead. Adopting in this way can be done (obviously you would have to be assessed again, generally the homestudy is quicker for an identified child). However given that he is the same age as your younger DC, I would not be very optimistic about SS agreeing in this case
Withay
I just finished adopting my fs. He is 5. My other ason is also 5. There were no issues regarding their ages and it was almost 3 years between their adoptions.