Where are the kids that need a home in Virginia??

This was a response to another thread, but I wanted to start a new one, as we have a great home, live in a great community, are approved future Adoptive parents, yet we are still waiting for a match. There has been shockingly such little activity regarding potential matches - where are all the kids that need a home?? ------ We're in the Tidewater area - completed Homestudy, Feb 2013 - shocked at how little activity there is. We're looking to do older child adoption - a girl 8 and younger. As future Adoptive parents, we get the feel that we're a distant last place in the big picture. Why doesn't Virginia let families with approved background checks and Homestudies see ALL children that are TPR?? We are getting the feeling that as long as the children are in Foster care, then there is no real pressure to find them permanent homes. Virginia needs a centralized database of Foster Children that is secured only for Adoption Workers and approved families, and it should be mandated that Foster workers list all the children in it! We always hear about all the children that need a home, yet here we wait, waiting for a call about a match.