HELP!

Originally Posted By CherieI am a 50 yr. old mother of an adopted 4 year old son, my husband is 52.He came into our lives when he was less than 3 weeks old. We both have children from previous marriages. Two children that are 30 and two children that are 27. We have grandchildren older than our son! He is one of the dearest blessings that God has ever bestowed upon us.

Originally Posted By SaraKasey,I am a birthmother who has recently (Feb 2001) placed my son for adoption. I would be willing to help you out with information.slytygr@hotmail.com

Originally Posted By JoMy daughter hide her pregnacey from everybody and last friday she had the baby. She had aready set up the adoption. I love my daughter and will have to stand behind her decision. But, I have such unbearable grief that I will not be in that baby life. I got to hold and see him after the papers were signed. He was such a perfect baby. I can not let her know how I feel because I do not what to hurt her in any way but, all the things i read are about the birth parents and how they feel. I can truly tell you I think the loss i feel is just as great as if he were mine. I am so depressed over the loss of my grand child. i have two other grandchilden and i know i will never get over this loss. I have raised four children and am still raising my own. How do you get over the voild that feels it will always be there. I held him once knowing i will never see him again is all i can bear. I find myself crying more as the time goes by. My husband says that it will take time. My friend trys to tell me that the baby will be better off. Maybe so the only thing he has that we could not have given him was the father. And in my thinking so what. I was raised by a single parent and i am not a bad person. I would like to talk to other grandparents in the same boat. maybe it would help. I am so hurt now. Thanks