Legal Risk in Colorado seeking legal council

Becky, That is a tough one. While I have never had experience in seeking legal council for myself to protect a foster child, I almost did so just about two months ago. Our case was unique as many are, and we felt that the best interest of the child was not being met and looking into getting council for ourselves to fight for this child. It turns out, thankfully, that by the next court date the GAL had done some homework on the case and saw that the best interest of this child was with his foster/adoptive placement and to terminate rights. Had it not been for the homework on the GAL's part, along with info that came forward soon after, we would have obtained an attorney and asked to be included in the case. Many people say that you risk your license and such by "stepping outside of your role" as a foster parent. I don't know that legally that can be done by seeking council, but everyone knows that it is easy to be blackballed or dealing with hardships if not in agreement with a particular agency be it private or county-run. It is a very tough call. I, however, am under the belief that part of my role is to protect the child and do what is best for HIM, not me or my husband. And I honestly believe that is what is best for him at this time. If the GAL is telling you it is in your best interest, and you have the conviction and feeling of believing what is best for that child is to remain with you, go for it! It won't be easy, but in your heart you will know that you have done all that you can to look out for that child's best interest and future. Best of luck to you!!! Karen F

Here in Washington state we have an ombudsman which is a mediator. If for any reason you feel that the best interest of a child is not being met by any party involved...(i.e. state, foster, bio parents, etc.) and you feel that the state is wrongly trying to re-unite based on less than stellar reasons or is possibly placing a child in a precarious situation, you can request an audit of the case by an impartial board. It is COMPLETELY confidential, they have full access to ALL records held by all agencies, and will review the case. It might buy some time. Thankfully, we didn't have to follow this course of action, but my finger was on the dial. You might try the following contact. I've included the info about the ombudsman as well. Department of Human Services Office of Consumer Relations State Human Services Building 1575 Sherman Street Denver, CO 80203 (303) 866-5825 Within the Department of Human Services is the Office of Consumer Relations which deals with a wide range of human needs, including but not limited to advocating for children. It serves as an ombudsman office with respect to its oversight of the child protection, social services and juvenile delinquency systems, foster and child care, child support enforcement, and services to the developmentally disabled. A staff of 2.5 employees receive, investigation and respond to complaints that focus mainly on matters regarding child welfare, mental health and child support. As necessary, staff makes referrals and track cases to monitor identified problem areas. I'll keep you all in my prayers!

Thank you all so much for your replies. We have decided to wait until after the hearing on Thursday to see what the judge has to say. It is a very touchy case and only God knows what is going to happen. I'm just trusting Him with this little guy and this case. Thanks again......I'll keep you posted. Becky

I'll be thinking and praying for you!!! We just went to court ourselves on Monday and the county finally got permanent custody of our little guy after 23 1/2 months. The big battle is over and now we move over to adoptions and cannot wait to make him a permanent part of our family!! Our best to you and keep us posted!! Karen F.