Suicide

Let me tell you a story about another young man named richard. He was alll alone. He was abandoned by his birth mother at a very young age. He was abandoned by is father as a young adult. He comitted suicide at 27 years old. He was all alone..... He never knew he had a big sister. She was abandon at 7 years of age,(my birth mom.) He never knew he had a little sister. also abandoned by birth mom at 6 mths of age(my aunt) She was adopted and also alone. She searched and searched and searched and finally found him but not in time. He was NOT alone. He just wasn't found yet. If only he had waited a little longer....... Don't ever give up. You DO have family out there. They may even be looking for you. Hang in there. All thlings happen in God's time. Keep looking and you will find, Be patient and you will be found Take care, Lharmadi

If you are feeling suicidal, whether or not you have found your birth mother, you need to get help ASAP--consider this: You die today and then tomorrow, your birth mother finally finds you. And you never get to meet her.

Hi John, Please do not ever give up - there is always hope that you will find what you are looking for. Here is an address of an organization who have the only adoption registry in Scotland. Contact them and tell them what you are thinking and that you need to find your bmother. All the best [url]http://www.birthlink.org.uk/[/url]

i am in launceston tasmania and i looked in the phonebook here. there is a c george 03 6381 1089. I would try this. Good luck Tiffany

I would like to thank you for replying. The only reason I have replied is because I would have felt terrible if you thought I had already did something terrible to myself. I'm hanging in there at present and i guess Im feeling down because I lost my job and my girlfriend at the same time. This is the loewst point of my life. It did not help that my ex girlfriend blames my natural mother either. I will post another post with more details of where I think my natural mother was last living. I hope that someone can help me. I'm just about coping, but so many times I look out the window and wish life was over. Take care all and thanks will be back intouch very soon.

John- I'm glad your hanging on. I don't have any idea how to help you find your natural mother. I just don't want to see you let yourself get so far down you can't get back up. No matter who your mother is, or if you ever find her or not, you have something wonderful to offer this world and it has something wonderful to offer you. Sometimes it takes some serious contemplation or even a good sense of humor to see what life has to offer that is wonderful, but it is there. Sometimes we reach out to the world and get support and encouragement, other times we reach out and get silence and a funny look. Many times the funny look helps me out more than anything someone might say to cheer me up, especially if they don't seem sincere. If you are in so much pain your are considering permenent solutions, please seek help. You are a gifted and creative person, please get through this and turn it it to an inspiration. Someday you may inspire someone else to do the same. Suicide is the one area of life that procrastination can work to your advantage. I care! Jeff

I guess time is a healer. I'm looking a little more forward to life now and will never contemplate in doing anything a so stupid as to ending my life. I was in a turmoil and I have got through that now. I'm actually seeing someone that can help me. I thank you all so much Love John

Hi John I am really glad to hear things are getting better for you now. Did you try the organisation I suggested to you? I have opened a new MSN support group called Adoption Scotland for people who are connected to adoption in some way with a Scottish connection. You are welcome to join. I will send you a PM. Pandora

John: The scripture that came to me this morning when I read your post is!! John, You can do all things through Christ who strengths you. May God Bless You. I am a mother waiting to here from her adopted daughter.

I would just like to thank you all for being so wonderful and compassionate. It's such a pity life can't be led by people who have hearts of gold. I have been busy over the past few months and work round the clock but I'm getting by. Will keep intouch with you all. Love John