Supporting Your Foster Parent Friends

Do you have friends who are foster parents? Wondering how you can be a support? This quiz can help you get started. (All questions based on this article by Shannon Hicks: https://adoption.com/8-things-foster-parents-reall... )

1. True or False: I can't help my foster parent friends out with childcare if I'm not licensed myself.

True - That's how the system works.

False - If they've got other kids, you can help out by providing them with a little extra attention.

2. When is a good time to bring food?

When a new placement has come into the family.

On court days.

Anytime.

All of the above.

3. Why do foster parents often say no to invitations?

They've got extra busy schedules.

Unexpected situations often arise that prevent them from attending events.

They don't like you anymore.

Sometimes kids need a lot of downtime to balance out the excitement of a social event.

A, B, and C.

4. What should you do when your foster parent friends are feeling overwhelmed or frustrated?

Remind them that they signed up for this.

Tell them that all kids have behavior problems.

Listen without judgment.

Recommend a new diet and exercise regimen.

5. Which of the following might be an unwelcome form of help?

An offer to help clean up the house.

Hand-me-downs provided in a garbage bag.

Laundry folding.

Household repairs.

6. True or False: An encouraging note can make all the difference to a struggling foster parent.

True

False

7. How can you help foster parents carve out a little more time in their lives?

Help them with transporting kids to and from places.

Bring paper plates when you provide dinner.

Pick up things they need at the store or other places.

All of the above.