Losing a foster child

Originally Posted By Laura LuehrMy husband and I are losing our foster child that was placed in our home with the understanding that the state would term the birth parents rights, now after six months the state dicided to place the child with a distant cousin. My husband and I feel like there has been a death in the family and no one can understand better than someone who has been there.If there is someone out there that has been there can you help us learn to cope?