One adoptive father shares that although some parents choose adoption only after discovering infertility has prohibited them from creating a biological family, it doesn’t mean that growing a family through adoption is not as good as a biological family. It simply means that there is surprise joy at adoption being the means of having a family. Josh Redfern’s comparison to a wonderful meal he and his wife shared gives all adoptive parents and others great pause to consider what a gift adoption can be. Even when adoption is a parent’s second choice, it certainly doesn’t mean that it is second best.